与宽恕相关的英文名言和谚语 5页

与宽恕相关的英文名言和谚语关于宽恕的名言和谚语Ausonius(奥索尼厄斯)Forgivemanythingsinothers;nothinginyourself。宽恕他人之种种；你罪无存。MadameDorothéeDeluzy(桃乐丝·德路兹夫人)Itiseasiertoforgiveanenemythanafriend。宽恕敌人比宽恕朋友容易MahatmaGandhi(圣雄甘地)Theweakcanneverforgive.Forgivenessistheattributeofthestrong。弱者永不宽恕，宽恕是强者的特性。GeorgeBernardShaw(萧伯纳)Thesecretofforgivingeverythingistounderstandnothing。宽恕一切的秘诀在于一无所知。JoshBillings(乔希·比林斯)Thereisnorevengesocompleteasforgiveness。没有比宽恕更彻底的复仇方式了。OscarWilde(奥斯卡·怀尔德)Alwaysforgiveyourenemies--nothingannoysthemsomuch。尽管去宽恕你的敌人吧——没有什么比这更让他们恼火了。AlexanderPope(亚历山大·蒲柏)Toerrishuman;toforgive,divine。犯错的是人；宽恕的，是神。EdHowe(艾德·豪)Awomanwhocan"tforgiveshouldneverhavemorethananoddingacquaintancewithaman。不懂宽恕的妇人永远只能是男人的点头之交。MahatmaGandhi(英雄甘地)Ifwepracticeandeyeforaneyeandatoothforatooth,soonthewholeworldwillbeblindandtoothless。如果我们都要以眼还眼、以牙还牙，那这个世界很快就盲眼且无牙。Forgivenessisgivingupthepossibilityofabetterpast。宽恕就是不再去想以往的事情本来可以更好。fromLiveandLearnandPassitOn-age51选自《生活着，学习着，传承着——51岁I"velearnedthatwhenyouhaveanargumentwithyourspouse,thefirstonewhosays,"I"msorryIhurtyourfeelings;pleaseforgiveme,"isthewinner。我听说，如果和另一半吵架，先说这句话的人会是赢家——“对不起，我伤害了你的感情，请原谅我。”AldenNowlan(奥尔登·诺兰)Thedaythechildrealizesthatalladultsareimperfect,hebecomesanadolescent;thedayheforgivesthem,hebecomesanadult;thedayheforgiveshimself,hebecomes wise。当一个孩子意识到大人们都不完美时，他就成为青少年；当他原谅他们时，他就变成了成年人；当他原谅自己时，他便成了智者。MahatmaGandhi(圣雄甘地)Theweakcanneverforgive.Forgivenessistheattributeofthestrong。弱者永不宽恕，宽恕是强者的特性。Unknown(佚名)ToforgiveistosetaprisonerfreeanddiscovertheprisonerwasYOU。宽恕就是释放囚犯，然后知囚犯即是你自己。JeanPaulRichter(吉恩·保罗·里克特)Humanityisneversobeautifulaswhenprayingforforgiveness,orelseforgivinganother。祈求宽恕和宽恕别人，再没有比此时的人性更美的了。Koran《古兰经》Hewhoforgiveth,andisreconcileduntohisenemy,shallreceivehisrewardfromGod;forhelovethnottheunjustdoers。恕者，及与敌为和者，真主必赏之；盖行不义者不得天宠者也。HenryWardBeecher(亨利·沃德·比奇)Icanforgive,butIcannotforget,isonlyanotherwayofsaying,Iwillnotforgive.Forgivenessoughttobelikeacancellednote--tornintwo,andburnedup,sothatitnevercanbeshownagainstone。我可以宽恕，但我不能忘记。这只是“我不宽恕”的另一种说法罢了。宽恕就得想取消一张票据一样——撕成两半，烧掉，再也无法向任何人出示。CatherinePonder(凯瑟琳·庞德)Whenyouholdresentmenttowardanother,youareboundtothatpersonorconditionbyanemotionallinkthatisstrongerthansteel.Forgivenessistheonlywaytodissolvethatlinkandgetfree。当你憎恨他人的时候，你就通过一条情感的链条和那个人或状况连在一起了。而且这个链条坚强如钢。宽恕是熔解这条链条解放自己的唯一法门。IsraelZangwill(伊斯雷尔赞格威尔)ThePast:Ourcradle,notourprison;thereisdangeraswellasappealinitsglamour.Thepastisforinspiration,notimitation,forcontinuation,notrepetition。过去：我们的摇篮，而非我们的监狱；它的魅力既吸引人又充满危险。过去是用来启发灵感，而非用于模仿，可供继续，而非重复。DocChildreandHowardMartin,TheHeartMathSolution奇尔德博士及霍华德·马丁《心智算数解决方案》Asdifficultas itseems,youcanbesureofthis:Atthecoreoftheheart,youhavethepowertomovebeyondtheoldissuesthatarestillhinderingyourfreedom.Thehardestthings—theonesthatpushyouupagainstyourlimits—aretheverythingsyouneedtoaddresstomakeaquantumleapintoafreshinnerandouterlife。虽然费解，但千真万确：在你的心灵深处，隐藏着一种力量，它可以使你远离妨碍自由的陈年旧事。那些最难办的事——那些有助于突破你的局限性的事——正是你需要重点解决的事。解决了以后，能给你的精神生活和外在生活来一个大飞跃。DocChildreandHowardMartin,TheHeartMathSolution奇尔德博士及霍华德·马丁《心智算数解决方案》Inthelongrun,it"snotaquestionofwhethertheydeservetobeforgiven.You"renotforgivingthemfortheirsake.You"redoingitforyourself.Foryourownhealthanwell-being,forgivenessissimplythemostenergy-efficientoption.Itfreesyoufromtheincrediblytoxic,debilitatingdrainofholdingagrudge.Don"tletthesepeopleliverentfreeinyourhead.Iftheyhurtyoubefore,whyletthemkeepdoingityearafteryearinyourmind?It"snotworthitbutittakesheartefforttostopit.Youcanmusterthatheartpowertoforgivethemasawayoflookingoutforyourself.It"sonethingyoucanbetotallyselfishabout。长远的眼光来看，问题不在于他们是否值得宽恕。你宽恕他们并非为他们着想，而是为了自己。为了你自己的健康和和福利而去宽恕，这是最省事的选择。它使你远离愤懑所带来的极大毒害和精力消耗。别让这些人免租金居住你的大脑。如果他们曾经伤害你，为什么还年复一年地让他们在你的心灵中继续为害？这不值得。也要用心努力才能制止这一切。你可以集中心力去宽恕，以便找回自己。这完全是一件利己的事。DocChildreandHowardMartin,TheHeartMathSolution奇尔德博士及霍华德·马丁《心智算数解决方案》Takeitslowly.Thedeepestresentmentsarewrappedupinalotofhurtandpain.Wethinkwe"reprotectingourselvesbynotforgiving.Acknowledgethatandgo easyonyourself.Forgivenessmeansthatyou"vedecidednottoletitkeepfesteringinsideevenifitonlycomesuponceinawhile.Forgivenessisapowerfulyetchallengingtoolthatwillsupportandhonoryou,eveninthemostextremecircumstances。别急着这样想：极度的憎恨里面包含着太多伤痛。我们以为不宽恕等于自我保护。要承认以下说法并善待自己：宽恕意味着你决心不让怨恨在内心化脓，即便它每隔一会儿才爆发一次。宽恕是一种强有力但又难掌控的工具，它能给你支持、给你荣誉，甚至在极度严酷的环境下也是如此。DocChildreandHowardMartin,TheHeartMathSolution奇尔德博士及霍华德·马丁《心智算数解决方案》Theincoherencethatresultsfromholdingontoresentmentsandunforgivingattitudeskeepsyoufrombeingalignedwithyourtrueself.Itcanblockyoufromyournextlevelofqualitylifeexperience.Metaphorically,it"sthecurtainstandingbetweentheroomyou"relivinginnowandanewroom,muchlargerandfullofbeautifulobjects.Theactofforgivenessremovesthecurtain.Clearingupyouroldaccountscanfreeupsomuchenergythatyoujumprightintoawholenewhouse.Forgivingreleasesyoufromthepunishmentofaself-madeprisonwhereyouareboththeinmateandthejailer。长期的愤恨、不宽恕的态度带来的内心不和谐不统一，使你不能和你的“真我”结为一体，妨碍你享受更高层次的生活体验。打个比方来说，它像是一幅帘子，悬挂在你现在所住的房间和一个新房间之间。而这个新房间相对大得多、有更多漂亮的物品。宽恕可以揭去这幅帘子。清除过去的芥蒂可以解放你的能量，使你直接跳入一个全新的房子。宽恕解除你的自我惩罚，把你从自建的监狱中释放。在那个监狱里，你既是囚犯，又是看守。SaraPaddison,HiddenPoweroftheHeart萨拉·帕蒂森《心的潜能》Sincereforgivenessisn"tcoloredwithexpectationsthattheotherpersonapologizeorchange.Don"tworrywhetherornottheyfinallyunderstandyou.Lovethemandreleasethem.Lifefeedsbacktruthtopeopleinitsownwayandtime—just likeitdoesforyouandme。真心的宽恕，不指望他人的道歉或改变。不必担心他们最终会不会理解你。爱他们，放过他们。生活会用他自己的方式和时机向人们回馈真理——正如他对你我所做的一样。DavidMcArthur&BruceMcArthur,TheIntelligentHeart戴维·麦克阿瑟和布鲁斯·马克阿瑟，《聪明的心》Manypeopleareafraidtoforgivebecausetheyfeeltheymustrememberthewrongortheywillnotlearnfromit.Theoppositeistrue.Throughforgiveness,thewrongisreleasedfromitsemotionalstrangleholdonussothatwecanlearnfromit.Throughthepowerandintelligenceoftheheart,thereleaseofforgivenessbringsexpandedintelligencetoworkwiththesituationmoreeffectively。很多人害怕宽恕，因为他们觉得，得记住罪过，否则无法从中吸取教训。其实反过来才对。通过宽恕，罪过松开了对我们情感的束缚。这样，我们才能从中吸取教训。通过心的力量和智慧来实行宽恕，可以带来更大的智慧，使我们更有效地应对各种情况